Gail Stanaland Ulmer
December 18, 1951 – May 4, 2026
Funeral services for Gail Stanaland Ulmer, 74, of Whigham, GA, are at 11:00 a.m., Saturday, May 9, 2026, at the First Baptist Church, Cairo, GA. Rev. Chris Allen and Dr. Chip Bragg will officiate. Interment will be in Woodlawn Cemetery, Whigham, GA. Mrs. Ulmer passed away surrounded by her loving family at her home on Monday, May 4, 2026.
Pallbearers will be Trey Gibbs, Brandon Bond, Chris Voyles, Nathaniel Cabe, Chris Burruss and Josh Smith.
Mrs. Ulmer was born on December 18, 1951, in Moultrie, GA, to the late Frank Henry Stanaland and Ida Cleo Duke Stanaland. On December 11, 1976, she married the love of her life, Joel Clayton Ulmer. Together, they lived lives full of love and devotion, sharing nearly 48 wonderful years of marriage. Raising two children of their own, she was a mother to many, many more. She served as Patient Representative at Archbold Memorial Hospital and worked there for more than 20 years. She was also a dedicated member of Whigham Baptist Church.
Gail was the embodiment of love, a sweet and gentle soul. Her selfless nature was defined by her willingness to care for others. She was a devoted daughter, wife, sister, mother, grandmother, aunt, and friend – always giving whatever she had for those she loved. Often forgoing her own desires, she humbly gave her time and energy for the betterment of those in need. No matter the situation, she was never too tired to cook, help with homework, or simply talk about your day. Her gentleness could be felt through her soothing voice, her loving hugs, and kisses. She was so proud of her family and was happy to tell anyone who would listen. She never met a stranger and quickly befriended everyone she met. Gail was renowned as an amazing cook, and her recipes are greatly treasured among friends and family. Whether she was making lasagna, Thanksgiving dressing, or baking cakes and pies, it was one of her favorite ways to love others.
Survivors include: children, Mandi Ulmer Cuevas (Mark) of Thomasville, GA, Clay Ulmer (Rachel) of Cairo, GA; grandchildren, Ava Cuevas, Emilia Cuevas, and Daniel Cuevas, all of Thomasville, GA, Reese Dozier of Cairo, GA; brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, John R. Ulmer (Kay) of Athens, GA, Jane U. Montgomery (Wood, Sr.) of Braselton, GA, Gail U. Bryan of Thomasville, GA, and a host of nieces, nephews, and extended family.
She was preceded in death by: her husband; her parents; and her sisters, Gerry Allen (Marlin) and JoAnn Tabor.
The family will receive friends at the First Baptist Church on Saturday, May 9, 2026, from 10:00 a.m. until 11:00 a.m.
